Mar 21, 2006

Things to appreciate about a wife

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think you guys miss something badly .......thats LOVE...TRY TO BE SENSITIVE.



I love you like I love a day
when everything goes right
I love you like I love to lay
and watch the stars at night
I love you like I love the rain
its lustful calm embrace
I love you like I love to laugh
until it hurts my face
I love you like I love to drive
with no real destination
I love you like I love the thrill
of pure infatuation
But most of all I love you like
I love a cherished friend
Who holds me tight, dries my tears
and loves me to the end

vikas said...

Who said we dnt love things infact we love plenty of them and that includes plenty of women too ,some of the things we love:

1. we love a day when we are dead drunk with friends and we get a lay.
2.we love to lay gazing at the stars with single malt in our hands and fantasizing .
3. i love making love in the rain.

4. i love to drive with a beer in my hand on my way o watch a cricket match.
5. i love all my friends who play a sport with me ,drink with me,appreciate all women with me and cherished are those who bitch about our wives when together.

thr is so much love involved in everyting we do guys our lives our full of it.

cheers

Anonymous said...

I think I would like to give anonymous a little hand here...it is not that men don't how to love..they actually are full of love..love for "themselves" and "their" needs and "their" desires...men are intelligent but not smart enough to figure out a way to find happiness on their own.They need a woman for that. However, to keep a woman it takes more than smarts it takes sensitivity and a little patience but then....do men even know what these words mean???

Shuv said...

i think you anonymous sisters have missed the point entirely..our rantings were not against women. i love women. its just a woman as a WIFE we are talking about. most of us had love marriages. we went thru phases of intense love, sensitivity, sacrifice and the entire gamut of emotions. marriage has killed all that..and 80% contribution behind that has been of the bitter half. that was the point.

Anonymous said...

Marriage does not kill anything..except the passion perhaps. What kills is the disillusionment of finding out much late in the day that the person you loved does not share your goals or your priorities in life. I have a feeling most of you guys didn't know exactly what you were getting into till you were neck deep in it...well no surprises there...men are myopic: Friend of anonymous

Shuv said...

you may be right..but we have started feeling that this concept of marriage is a bullshit one. its against nature, god (or whatever) did not create us this way, it was thought out by man himself. its just not possible for 2 individuals to be happy tied together forcefully.

kaushik said...

Dear anonymouses.. too bad that you choose to such.. identity crisis.. women are likethat...

All this talk of man, woman, marriage is a bit of hogwash..

Its all about. Click to know more..

Vivek said...

An Observation - I think all these so called friends of 'anonymous' is a farce, there is just a solitary anonymous and she is woman.

Vivek said...

I am attending a development program in my office these days. It is about behavioural sciences. During the session a thought struck me this afternoon -
It does not matter what you think; It does not matter what you speak either;
What is understood, is the reality.

Shuv said...

shaadi ke baad tu philosophical bann gaya mere bhai..

rip van winkle said...

"if you have a good wife you become a happy man;if you have a bad wife you become a philosopher."..an old saying.
Sorry i beg to differ.whether good or bad wife happiness will remain a fiction.(if u understand the meaning of happiness i.e)Marriage is the most IMMORAL thing that has happened to mankind.nobody ever needed it.the animals dont need marriage they dont need a govnmnt,but man does.An animal never gets bored.Have u ever seen a bored fish or a bored cow?they seem to be perfectly happy with themselves..as they are.man is not.and that is what the conditioning is all about..not to be satisfied with what u are.U r never going to be satisfied with yr own wife or yr wife with u.the whole damn thing was unneccessary.may be the polititians and the rulers needed it to tame you down or to maintain a proper census but for sure WE NEVER NEEDED MARRIAGE AT THE FIRST PLACE.

Shuv said...

at last!! we agree on something!

rip van winkle said...

have patience pal,we'll be friends in no time!